Chidinma, 24. Straight,
We dated so it son when i are 20 for around a good 12 months in which he are obsessed with a fitness center. He’d work-out much and you may more or less mock me whenever i decided to go to the gym together getting maybe not lifting as often. When he fell unwell and you may forgotten his muscles he became an excellent various other person, it had been such the guy had a need to inform you he was still stronger each go out we had a quarrel in months, he would tell me how the guy would not marry me personally once more.
He merely left looking for an effective way to set myself off once the I you will nevertheless visit the gym and he did not. He was most “Christian”, as soon as I wouldn’t manage when he said he would already been to the submitting line and you will state he may wed me personally.
I existed together for about thirty days because the he’d holiday accommodation products and therefore was whenever i know We wouldn’t do it anymore. He’d grumble on the me personally purchasing food and create let me know one to their mom would have to “train” me personally for example season prior to he is able to marry me. He wished to enforce their popularity day long, the guy would not day me personally when the he didn’t have currency then he graduated so you can taking money from me personally instead of asking or trying to repay while the he was your head and “what do you would like currency for, you will be a lady”.
Onyinye, 19. Straight,
We dated men some time a year ago. He was an Igbo son within his late 20s. He was a person who never ever paid attention to me personally and always got my personal feedback just like the substandard. At one time we were merely talking and i told you “omo” and then he come asking if we were mates. I got to do that which you he requested even though I became shameful on it. Regardless of if he did something wrong or something like that I didn’t such as for instance, I wouldn’t chat right up as the the guy disregarded it and constantly turned into some thing around to build me personally feel accountable. Thank goodness, I happened to be capable exit the relationship this present year.
Ronke, 19. Asexual,
I happened to be which have a 
guy who was simply inside the an ‘unlock relationship’ and he advertised as along side hottie but however didn’t breakup with her. In addition to, the partnership was just ‘open’ to own your just like the he didn’t let her do blogs which have anyone else, and to make issues worse, the guy need us to be private with him but he left carrying out any kind of the guy desired. The guy shortly after created that i try fucking my buddy as the my personal sister regularly push myself almost everywhere hence produced him extremely jealous.
Tireni, 23. Straight,
I became watching he which was very sexist and you can misogynistic. Within his cover, he had been fifteen years avove the age of I was and i also failed to stand for enough time for this to help you reveal properly. We found him at random 1 day alongside my personal estate. The guy chosen me regarding and dropped me where I was supposed. I do not usually enter flights, however it was hot one big date. Really nice boy, needless to say far more mature, but Everyone loves older people and so i didn’t brain. We exchanged amounts and he been getting in touch with myself. I sought out repeatedly therefore try rather innocuous.
He then informed me about how precisely he pests his girlfriend’s mobile phones since the guy has to understand these include devoted so you’re able to him. Which had been strange, but he or she is a protection medical therefore i give it time to slide.
He then questioned me to become off to their lay that day to help you cool. The next thing I’m sure he explained that there is beans within the the fresh pantry and you can moi-moi renders towards the sink. Which i should go and you can prepare. He had been such as for instance was We not a woman, that it was my personal biggest employment while making my guy pleased. I quickly had another work. This work is actually certainly gonna be a great deal more monotonous and you can exhausting, and in addition extremely entertaining and you will fascinating. An enormous step in the right advice on my fantasy business. The guy insisted We ignore the job because the it’ll make me hectic and that i will not have time for your. After that date, We acknowledged the job and blocked your every-where.
We possibly may go out and I’d shell out cash nevertheless attendant will offer your the change and i also would try to proper the newest attendant however, he would let me know I found myself overreacting. My personal date explained I became carrying out continuously plus it wasn’t one strong. Omo, I wanted to run resentful. It was a horrible sense. We left your nearly long ago.